The Daily Clitoris

The Universal Voice of Woman’s Sexuality

June 7, 2012

What’s the difference between sexual satisfaction and sexual satiation? It’s a question many women ask when they make the paradigm shift to female-centered sex. To Marci, it was the difference between night and day.

Forty-six years ago Mary Jane Sherfey, a brilliant psychiatrist devoted to studying woman’s sexuality, told us that in reality, women are dissatisfied with sex, but that they will themselves to feel satisfied. She said that was what was expected of them and so they capitulated. They were unaware of their orgasmic potential and the fulfillment their orgasms would bring, so they settled for mundane sex, claiming satisfaction when it didn’t exist.

Marci had been there. If asked, she would say that she was satisfied with her sex life, with an occasional orgasm, with male-centered sex, but that she felt somehow incomplete, like something was missing from the encounters. What was missing, she found later, was bliss, the ecstasy of a flood of orgasms that female-centered sex provided—the physical and emotional satiation that yielded deep contentment and a feeling of fulfillment.

Sherfey was correct, given the opportunity to express their innate sexuality, women would see through the falsity of sexual satisfaction and demand their rightful sexual satiation. Women are, Sherfey said, truly orgasmically insatiable. Marci and thousands of other women attest to that. What about you?