The Daily Clitoris

The Universal Voice of Woman’s Sexuality

March 1, 2013

When women make the paradigm shift to female-centered sex from male-centered sex, nine out of ten are adamant in their determination not to revert back. They want their continued physical and emotional sexual satiation and not the faux sexual satisfaction they willed themselves with intercourse. They want the extraordinary sexual adventures and phenomenal health benefits extended cunnilingus allows. Why then, don’t all women make the shift? What is it that stands in the way of their supreme sexual expression? If you haven’t made the shift, why haven’t you? Tell us in the comment section below. Next week, I’ll reveal what women have had to say.

The Daily Clitoris

The Universal Voice of Woman’s Sexuality

February 1, 2013

If you’re a woman who is dissatisfied with your sex life, you’re not alone. Seventy-five percent of women think male-centered sex (intercourse) leaves much to be desired, and many feel used. They tell me they’re tired of being treated as a sperm depository, and being left feeling empty and unfulfilled. They know something is wrong, but they don’t know what, so many of them go looking elsewhere for their sexual satisfaction. Society leaves them little choice.

The problem is, of course, multifaceted; but, the main reason for our sexual discontentment is our lack of knowledge of our natural sexuality. Most women have no idea that their sex drive is a powerful instinctual drive, not for reproduction as society would have them believe, but for orgasm. We’re highly sexual beings, driven unconsciously by the urge to be physically and emotional sexually satiated; yet, society makes us ashamed, and we feel guilty, if we attempt to answer that natural instinct.

Our orgasms are the essence of our sexuality; yet most women have no concept of their orgasmic potential. They have no idea of their orgasmic capabilities, or what their orgasms can bring to them and their partners and their relationships. Do you?

Are your orgasms a natural part of you? Do you feel they bring you complete physical and emotional satiation? Are you aware of their benefits? Won’t you take a minute and tell others what you feel? Knowledge is indeed power; so write a comment, and share your knowledge to help others understand.

The Daily Clitoris

The Universal Voice of Woman’s Sexuality

June 7, 2012

What’s the difference between sexual satisfaction and sexual satiation? It’s a question many women ask when they make the paradigm shift to female-centered sex. To Marci, it was the difference between night and day.

Forty-six years ago Mary Jane Sherfey, a brilliant psychiatrist devoted to studying woman’s sexuality, told us that in reality, women are dissatisfied with sex, but that they will themselves to feel satisfied. She said that was what was expected of them and so they capitulated. They were unaware of their orgasmic potential and the fulfillment their orgasms would bring, so they settled for mundane sex, claiming satisfaction when it didn’t exist.

Marci had been there. If asked, she would say that she was satisfied with her sex life, with an occasional orgasm, with male-centered sex, but that she felt somehow incomplete, like something was missing from the encounters. What was missing, she found later, was bliss, the ecstasy of a flood of orgasms that female-centered sex provided—the physical and emotional satiation that yielded deep contentment and a feeling of fulfillment.

Sherfey was correct, given the opportunity to express their innate sexuality, women would see through the falsity of sexual satisfaction and demand their rightful sexual satiation. Women are, Sherfey said, truly orgasmically insatiable. Marci and thousands of other women attest to that. What about you?