by femmetrish » Mon Aug 22, 2011 4:52 pm
I would place on-line sex in the category of masturbation fantasies or the need to discuss intimate sexual desires with a trusted friend without actually acting on them. So, I would not consider that cheating. However, I would be reluctant to intimately expose my body on a video cam or through an exchange of pictures. I would tend to view that as cheating.
I am young "bi" and divorced; sex with my ex was completely unsatisfying with no consideration of my needs. Had our marriage continued much longer and the opportunity for sex with another woman presented itself, I feel I would have been a willing participant. I would have had to do it without his knowledge and would have felt I was cheating, but my need was created by his indifference.
I am just offering my feelings and not offering advice or judging anyone. I sense many women have security and the material things they desire, but feel deprived of their emotional and physical needs.
Trish