Esybron Institute

[Esybron]

In working with thousands of women in our workshops, we find that the majority of them, around 87%, say they can't find or do not have a G spot. When the G spot is defined as a distinct swelling contained within our vaginas that brings us to ecstatic heights when massaged by a penis, dildo, finger, or any other suitable object and leads to mind-blowing orgasm, most women say they're minus such an accoutrement. Do you have such a "spot" or do you think it's all imaginary, a typical trick to keep our penile fascination in search of our orgasmic nirvana? Sound off and let the world know your feelings.

[exobabe]

I have looked for months and can't find anything unusual I know there is supposed to be a rough spot in their somewhere, but I haven't found it. It sure doesn't give me any feelings other than rubbing. I think it is a waste of time.

[foxy1]

I suppose we are doomed to this media hype about our bodies. It seems as though our vaginas are public property. With all the media attention given to this putative G spot, you'd think we have a gold mine in there. Intercourse is fine thank you without this growing entity inside me that is supposed to swell with stimulation and give me mind-blowing orgasms. My advice, forget it and have fun. Oh, BTW, I don't have one either.

[Terry]

Some believe the G-spot is simply the urethral sponge, which some find pleasurable to stoke. Others say it is behind that structure, but neither place feels very good being touched unless they are engorged.

The inner walls of the vagina of course have no pressure sensitive nerve endings, but there are these in the deeper tissues. Pushing up wards on the anterior vaginal wall can serve to stimulate the body and the legs of the clitoris IF the woman is properly engorged. There are actually many exquisitely sensational spots inside a woman's vagina, referred to by several different sensuality instructors whose focus is female orgasm, as Thunkspots. Finding them is easy, and your hands are the perfect "tool" to do this with.

When a woman is engorged AND relaxed most of these Thunkspots are also more accessible than the 1 - 2 inches often indicated for the G-spot, and do not require much pressure at all. Any pressure used of course will push out the engorgement, so it is good to know how to 1) How create a proper amount, 2) When there is enough, and 3) How to maintain it.

[jackie2]

I just read the post on the G spot and it opned my eyes as to y i have not been able to expeience all the joys i've read about in the mags and papers. Thanks esybron for the in depth look at my makeup.

[carl]

must be urethral sponge, which creates secretions and secretes during intercourse/lovemaking..
some women think they have wet themselves, as the secretions exit thru the urethra [like urine]..
lying about three inches in at front wall of vagina, urethral sponge must, receive any specific pressure
applied to that area directly opposit it.. think of say, one switch on a computer, and someone switching it
on and off, yet it 'isnt doing anything'.. because the computers not switched on and working..

when the process has begun, then that switch [or the urethral sponge] will work, as part of an overall
process, not a separate magic button...

there seems tio be far, more, to orgasm than any specific of it...
stress and other emotional factors can, effect, potential orgasmic responses/experiences..
women can, teach their bodily systems to orgasm and to attain multiple orgasms..
[this shows that the mind and emotions together with simple physiological functioning are all involved]

instead of looking on the inside wall of [the wonderful] vagina, try just thru it, to urethral sponge

[vixen]

yes!!! its real girls. look up on the internet about "tantric yoni massage." the truth is we ALL have a g spot but we have become desensitized. this can happen from abuse, bad experiences, or just having sex for any wrong reason... our g spots are incredibly sensitive to our sexual souls and beings. if we are frustrated, it is frustrated. if we are angry, it is angry. dont take offense to this, please. its quite normal to feel pain when it is touched, or not much of anything at all. thats because your g spot is numb, is denying the sensation. you have to just relax and submit to it being touched, and give in to any feelings that may arise, may they be painful and of anger and sadness, or you might even laugh! it helps if you can have a partner that you trust to want to please you and that truly embraces your desires. dont be afraid to learn that you might not know what you want. this is most certainly true of all women, we dont KNOW what we want until its there for us to take. and creating that situation is always the most difficult thing to come across. well at least for me, but i am quite young, 22. but im telling you that yes its real, yes i have ejaculated, and yes there are MANY spots in the vagina that are sensitive.

this being said i have only had one true g spot vaginal orgasm in my life. it happened when i was 15 and still a virgin... i masturbated with a dildo... with honeslty, not much intent, NO expectation, i was merely imagining for the first time in my life what it would be like to have a dick inside me.... and yes, i shit you not, it brought me there after only about 2 minutes.... i had an orgasm that was long, at least a minute and it knocked me out. this happened when i was young, when i had no expectations about what i should feel, and i had never had the opportunity to be abused or mistreated. i thought it was easy as 123. so i figured being with a guy could only be better and more exciting. well it wasnt. i went through a series of trying to find a man to satisfy me until it just killed my desire. i have never again been able to have a g spot orgasm like that but i have been working on its sensitivity with my partner and just having him to help me is a great help. he is expanding my sensations and opening me to accept him and the body of a man, into my body, into my mind, into my heart. it also helps that he can last significantly longer then the average man, at least 20 minutes. he is very sensitive to what i need and always tries to give it to me. in fact he would rather not have sex at all then engage in something with me that wont satisfy me. i believe this support is necessary for a woman to thrive sexually, and if you are not getting this, that you need it. try to choose a man who is a bit of a perfectionist and takes pride in what he does, and doesnt make excuses. this man will want to be like a god in bed if he can.

but please ladies! work on your g spots and accept that feeling nothing at first is normal. the answer is in opening your mind, and just being able to feel under scars in your heart... that have left their mark... in our centre of being, deep inside of us. i know that alot of you have doubt about what the vagina can mean. but do not knock it, do not look at it like it is primarily for someone elses enjoyment, that that is what it is designed for. that can only harm you and further detach and disassociate you from your body. remember, that the vagina is a divine passage of rite and life, and a beautiful cavern full of deep dark secrets and desires.

[vixen]

Oh and I would like to add that pressing on that region with a dildo always always induces ejaculation for me everytime, but I have no orgasm. And I'm talking abouts lots and lots of cum, I soak a towel. But my partner hasn't made me ejaculate yet. So this just goes to show you how perceptive our vaginas are and how closely linked they are to our feellings and thoughts. If I can consistently make myself cum as a normal and enevitable response and my man can't, something is stopping me inside from metting him, and its myself.

[Esybron]

Vixen, of course, is correct, for her. The problem I've found in working with thousands of women over the years is that we're not all alike. Not only are we built differently, but our sexual expressions are so diverse. Medically, our vagina contains nothing that aids our orgasmic release. The nerves for the most part are visceral and incapable of sensory preception, but our minds are fantastically powerful. The "will" to experience pleasure works miracles, but it's fantasy and more power to us for that. Many women have learned to orgasm from thought alone, fantasizing, and that gives us the ability to enjoy, but realistically, our vaginas aren't designed for pleasure.

As for our G spot, no Vixen, I'm afraid that not all women have a G spot, only some do, but all women have a paraurethral sponge (see the main menu for G spot). What frustrates many women is looking for something that's not there and then thinking they're somehow deficient when they're not and this erodes their confidence.

All I'm saying is be sexually knowledgeable of yourself, reclaim your sexual autonomy, and enjoy your natural sexuality. I know I do, how about you?

[love creation]

hi
interesting topic ,am not sure about G spot exist or not but if it existed you all lovely ladies must had one since there are no special editions by nature to our bodies,99.9% female anotomy is same with exception to weight ,height and size of breast n vigina,
am a nature lover and love creation and of all creations i have found female the best ,kind,filled with love sweet,an unlimited capacity to love,above all devotion to their lover i know there are women in abundance in all over the world who every night sleep un satisfied physically but do make their lovers comfortable and satisfied and their lovers curl up like child in same bed,
why shouldnot men and all other creations respect and honour women