Is my husband cheating?

[CheshireCat]

Are there any tell-tale signs that my husband is cheating on me?

[Esybron]

In all our years of experience we can say with confidence that there are no surefire signs or symptoms of his cheating. If you do suspect it, there is usually cause. There are myriad sites out there for you, but one that appears to be excellent according to many women who talk with us is www.infidelityadvice.com headed by Ruth Houston. Moderator.

[huntress]

If you feel in your gut he is cheating then most likely he is and you should get to the bottom of it. Confront him, men are usually wimps when confronted and usually confess. Then again, maybe you shouldn't even care. As women, we aren't really made to be monogamous. We enjoy sex much more than people realize. I know I do and I do cheat whenever he can't fulfill my needs. Cheer up and don't let it get you down.

[foxy1]

I've been meaning to add my two-cents to this for a while, so I'll do it now. There really is no sure-fire way other than to catch him red-handed or to get him to fess up. Both are difficult at best. My ex cheated repeatedly and I was too stupid to know it. In retrospect, I should have suspected it early on what with his numerous "trips" to the store; although he did come back with something. He cheated strictly for sex, just to get off. He didn't go in for long affairs, just those that would be quick and easy. What really got me was he was fucking me all the time too.

I was blindsided. I didn't have a clue. Well that will never happen again. I was just too trusting, but no more. If you suspect he's cheating, then you better follow it up. There really is no excuse for not catching it and dumping his ass. I know, I didn't but I really loved him and trusted him all those years. What a fool.

[sassy]

Just thought I would comment on a cheating husband. I found out from a friend last week that my husband is definitely cheating on me. I suppose that was inevitable since I really don't get much out of intercourse, but he surely didn't lack any opportunity to get it off with me. He gets it at least four times a week so why is he fucking someone else? Until Melissa told me, I didn't have any suspicions that he was banging some other woman. But I suppose I was not too observant. Even now that I know, I can't tell anything different in his attitude or expressions toward me. No telltale signs, no changes in his daily routines. I don't know that I give a damn now. I cut him off last night.

[gis]

I know this is way past the original time that this was posted, but I think one issue should be addressed. Health. If your husband is cheating or if you suspect he is go to your doctor and get your self checked out at a reproductive health clinic. Sadly some men who cheat are not careful about what they bring home... I don't mean roses either.

[sassy]

Boy is Gis right. When I cut him off I found that I had syphilis, what a bummer. I demanded testing and he had it too. The moral of the story is watch out if your man is cheating , you may get a surprise.