Woman's Orgasm

As women, we instinctively know that our orgasms are the essence of our femaleness, that there is something divine in their nature, some mystic quality defying definition. We know intuitively that our orgasms are distinctively different from his, that they carry us to places not of this world, lifting us into transcendence. When asked, we acknowledge almost universally, that our orgasms are an integral aspect of our sexuality. Perceptively, we treasure them as our most precious gift, more than we do our power of procreation. We feel their uniqueness, the energizing power of the cosmos surging through us, connecting us to the spiritual and to our partner. Nevertheless, if our orgasms are the essence of our femaleness, why then are they the source of such pernicious disquietude? Why are we so disenchanted with sex?

The Root of Our Sexual Disenchantment
The root cause of our discontentment lays deep in the contaminated soil of patriarchal manipulation of our innate sexuality and our failure to recognize its subterfuge. The patriarchs continue to work tirelessly to keep us ignorant of our sexual prowess and the realization that our orgasms have distinct purposes, other than pleasure—purposes that pose a lethal threat to male dominance.

The founding fathers knew well that our powers of mate assessment, male transformation, and female confirmation depend on our ability to experience multiple, prolonged orgasms and that we use our sequential orgasms as determiners of the worthiness of our male partners and as connectors to each other as women. They recognized that our orgasmic powers posed an imminent and decided threat to patriarchy, that we could bond together as women to thwart oppression and that we could transform the character of men through sex. To them, transformation posed the most significant threat to the newly formed male dominance, for if we were allowed to change the attitude and behavior of our partners through sex, as we had for hundreds of millennia before the Inversion, then men could no longer be counted on to support female oppression and patriarchy would fall. Therefore, these male apostles instituted a concerted campaign to curtail our multiorgasmic potential that continues today. (See The Male Sex Paradigm)

How did they do it? How do they keep us from seeking our innate sexuality and our fulfillment as women through our orgasmic powers?

Declaring Sexual Intercourse Woman’s Ultimate Sexual Expression
Simply by coronating sexual intercourse as our ultimate sexual expression, declaring it the main course of our sexual activity, they virtually guarantee we will never attain sufficient sequential orgasms to effect transformation. (See Male Transformation) By inverting our innate sexuality, forcing us to accept coitus, rather than cunnilingus, as our sexual centerpiece, the intercourse gurus assure our sexual subservience and effectively eliminate our inherent ability to change men through our orgasms. But pronouncing something is a long way from gaining acceptance, so how did the coital masters accomplish our compliance? How did they get us to buy into the falsity?

Coercing Woman’s Compliance with Sexual Intercourse
By indoctrinating us from the time we are old enough to understand the concept of sex, society (parents, schools, churches, social organizations, the media, etc.) inculcates the fundamental perception that we are female and females are here to be fucked, to have kids, raise families, and provide emotional and sexual support for our benefactors—men. We are, they say, biologically constructed to fuck and that our fuckability is our defining characteristic. Our vagina determines our destiny; it is a biologic imperative that cannot be denied. So deeply do we believe this nonsense, that it creates a severe unconscious psychologic rift within most of us. Uprooting our sexuality, forcing us to follow a theme contrary to our natural instincts, creates a dichotomy, an unconscious division between our mind and body. What we believe about sex and what we actually feel with sex are out of balance. Consequently, we unknowingly fight the internal battle every time we have sexual intercourse. (See Sexual Intercourse Data). Nevertheless, we comply, we do it, most times willingly, unaware of the manipulation to keep us relatively anorgasmic, thereby preventing any possibility of mate assessment, male transformation, and female confirmation.

Reinforcing Woman’s Vaginal Destiny
By constantly placing before us volumes of misinformation and misdirection, the copulatory apologists keep us from rediscovering our orgasmic prowess. Our orgasms, they declare, are nothing more than copies, byproducts, of the male orgasm, nothing spectacular or unique, and nothing to be missed when they fail to appear. The coital champions work diligently to keep us off balance, to prevent our concentration on our relative lack of orgasmia with intercourse by proclaiming them elusive and mysterious. Obfuscate, divide, create feelings of sexual inadequacy, lower our self-esteem, and keep us in the copulatory corral. Keep us fucking, but as anorgasmic as possible. Toss in sundry orgasmic ingredients—vaginal vs. clitoral, G spot, A spot, U spot, extended, blended, massive, etc. and we have the makings of an amalgamated casserole—all designed to keep us seeking but not finding—curious, but unfulfilled.

In truth, we need hip waders to navigate this pile of bovine manure, but blinded by our ignorance of our sexual heritage and vital life forces, we limp along singing their song and doing their coital dance believing it our destiny but intuitively feeling it is a subterfuge. If we only knew their plan, we could simply negate it. Power comes from our realization that the patriarchs want us to seek our orgasm (singular) to prevent us from reclaiming the female sex paradigm. An orgasm, or two, is not what we need for physical and emotional fulfillment, nor are they sufficient for mate assessment, male transformation, and/or female confirmation—we need prolonged, multiple, sequential orgasms to accomplish our inherent sexuality. Sexual intercourse is strikingly incapable of accomplishing this necessity and they know it , hence, they keep us strapped to our fictitious vaginal destiny.

That the intercourse zealots have done a job worthy of the slickest Madison Avenue ad campaigns is incontrovertible. All we need is to listen to what women tell us about their orgasms and we see immediately the vista painted by these fanatics is a façade.

What Women have to say about their Orgasms

Almost three-quarters of women say they feel that their orgasms are important to achieve in sexual intercourse, while the remainder tell us they do not consider them meaningful, but essentially all relate they are an integral aspect of their sexuality. How they gain coital induced orgasm, reveals the unnaturalness of intercourse as our inherent sexual expression. While trying to find our orgasmic bliss, none of us focuses entirely/exclusively on intravaginal stimulation, whereas eight of ten concentrate on clitoral excitation to achieve climax. Without clitoral involvement, we might as well read a book, as only a few of us will ever feel the earth move with a penis inside us. On the other hand, when we somehow manage to get that extra clitoral boost while he humps along, about a quarter of us will reliably achieve orgasmic nirvana. When only one in seven men can last more than five minutes before ejaculating, it is no wonder our orgasms are missing in action with the copulatory tango. Additionally, when we factor in our anatomy, it becomes apparent that we are not designed or intended to orgasm from penile thrusting despite claims to the contrary.

The incontrovertible fact that we orgasm frequently, consistently, and easily with self-stimulation and cunnilingus proves that our physical/emotional mechanisms function correctly. Additionally, the almost universal admission that when we masturbate to orgasm, we do not primarily use intravaginal stimulation speaks loudly against penile penetration being the great stimulator.

When those of us who experience both coital and cunnilingal orgasms compare their orgasmic activity, the differences are truly astounding. Over 90 percent of us say when we are fortunate enough to find our orgasmic nirvana with intercourse, we cascade from the pinnacle only once during the session. Few of us are multiorgasmic with penile choreography and then only to the tune of two or three—far short of that required for mate assessment and/or male transformation. In sharp contrast, when we orgasm from cunnilingus, we are invariably multiorgasmic, with eight of ten saying they bask in four or more cosmic trips. When we hear from women who have reclaimed the female sex paradigm, their orgasms are daily and decidedly multiorgasmic during transformative sex.

The concerted effort of the copulatory advocates to get us to fixate on penile-vaginal penetration is an ingeniously clever ploy to get us to willingly surrender our orgasmic potential to the guardians of male supremacy. What a sad commentary, but it highlights the success of the Inversionist’s campaign to severely restrict our orgasms, control our sexuality, and prevent our rediscovery of our sexual prowess.

The Bottom Line

Despite the insidious claims of the male masters, our orgasms are not inconsequential and they are decidedly not a byproduct of the superfluous male orgasm. For hundreds of thousands of years prior to the Inversion, our orgasms served to advance civilization and assure our survival as a species. Yet, we remain oblivious to their purposes, unwitting partners to the patriarchal deceit.

Our orgasms are deeply embedded in our souls, the driving force that keeps us searching for the female sex paradigm, and the force that gives us the powers of mate assessment, male transformation, and female confirmation. Our orgasms are the essence of our being and the gateway to survival. Yet, we continue to allow the coital fanatics to control us—to conform to the male sex paradigm. Enough. Demand your birthright. You are multiorgasmic for a reason—to transform, to confirm, to unite and promote solidarity. The choice is yours. By reclaiming your feminine destiny and insisting on your orgasmic satiation, you act to change the world one woman at a time.

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